Being Good Means What?

Means nothing, I guess. Be good, consider others' feeling, others' needs, and what do you get? Stepped up by those people. You pay attention, be nice and kind, you are taken for granted. They call you only when they need you. You bitch around, you hurt people, you take people for granted, well, they still… Continue reading Being Good Means What?


What teens really want to know about sex


Remember how weird it was to ask questions about sex as a teenager? High school teacher Al Vernacchio answers his students’ questions about everything from DIY birth control to how to tell when a guy really likes you, in an excerpt from his new book.

On the first day of my Sexuality and Society class, I don’t pass around anatomy drawings. I don’t hand out pamphlets about safer sex, although those are stacked on a table near the door. Instead, the first thing I do is establish ground rules. People should speak for themselves, laughter is OK, we won’t ask “personal history” questions, and we’ll work to create a community of peers who care about and respect one another. Only then can we get to work.

I’m all about context. Talking about sexuality, intimacy, relationships, and pleasure can’t be done in a vacuum.

In the back corner of my classroom is an…

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Keseeell adalah ketika lo udah sampe IIMS jam 10 pagi, terus elo DITOLAK masuk sama satpam karena elo cuma punya TIKET, tanpa bawa surat tugas. Pengunjung biasa boleh masuk jam 11. Dan gue yg seharusnya ga jadi pengunjung biasa, terpaksa nunggu sejam dengan penuh kesia2an.. Sialan kan? Yang sialan bukan pihak IIMS-nya. Yang bikin KZL… Continue reading KZL


What the best education systems are doing right


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In South Korea and Finland, it’s not about finding the “right” school.

Fifty years ago, both South Korea and Finland had terrible education systems. Finland was at risk of becoming the economic stepchild of Europe. South Korea was ravaged by civil war. Yet over the past half century, both South Korea and Finland have turned their schools around — and now both countries are hailed internationally for their extremely high educational outcomes. What can other countries learn from these two successful, but diametrically opposed, educational models? Here’s an overview of what South Korea and Finland are doing right.

The Korean model: Grit and hard, hard, hard work.

For millennia, in some parts of Asia, the only way to climb the socioeconomic ladder and find secure work was to take an examination — in which the proctor was a proxy for the emperor, says Marc Tucker, president and CEO of the National Center on…

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Love & Squalor in the Middle East

Faith in humanity restored.

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As the trauma in Israel/Palestine rages on, I try to keep my focus on growing peace between people, far from politics, wherever I see the light. Meet Tali Goodfriend. Her life story is more stunning than most, but it is what she does with her experience, that makes her a poster child for love.

Tali was five when her father had a dream that he could help bring the Messiah to life. He moved their family from Miami, Florida to the Negev desert in Israel, and started to build a Jewish settlement in the sand. Tali was the first of nine children to come, with her Dad’s two wives, her two Moms. They lived and went to school in a tent, with no running water or electricity, while her father and his followers worked to make the desert green.

sign Aravah: south of Beersheba, borders Jordan to the east.

Growing up, Tali became close to a family of Palestinian-Bedouins who lived in a camp nearby.

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Imagine: On Bravado and Humility, 11 September 2014

There are a lot of people like the writer. The government doesn’t simply represent all of the nation. I think, we can learn something here. One thing I myself should learn because I lack of it: humility.

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On the eve of 9/11 2014, President Obama admitted, “Still, we continue to face a terrorist threat,” adding:

We cannot erase every trace of evil from the world, and small groups of killers have the capacity to do great harm. That was the case before 9/11, and that remains true today. That’s why we must remain vigilant as threats emerge….

Moreover, I have made it clear that we will hunt down terrorists who threaten our country, wherever they are. That means I will not hesitate to take action against ISIL in Syria, as well as Iraq. This is a core principle of my presidency: if you threaten America, you will find no safe haven.

In these words echo the same bravado expressed dozens of times by President George W. Bush in the days and years following the U.S. horror now known simply as 9/11.

Today, 11 September 2014, imagine…

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